Whats Love?Does it really exist?

Sometimes we think we have it all yet we don't. we think have a best friend or the best boyfriend that we wanna spend the rest of your life with but some actions that this people do, make us think twice whether they are the same people we wanna spent the REST of our lives with and live in the same roof with.

I don't think there's a guy out there who wanna settle in with a girl who parties every Monday to Monday, a girls who just sits there and expects everything to be given at her comfort, a girl who doesn't trust her guy and is so insecure with each and every move he makes yet this guy is sincere. I'm sure all guys want a hard working girl,(maybe not an independent one if ur not in for the competition but at least someone whose not nagging)




But check this out.. a guy finds a lady whose true to him.. a lady whose ready to be submissive not because shes forced but because she knows that's what God wants a woman to be to her husband( although no marriage is involved yet) This is a Lady, who works as hard as she can to get at least some cash that she can save up to get the "boyfriend" a birthday present, Valentines present, Easter present, name them all. she visits the boyfriend from time to time, make sure that she does her best to see the man she loves happy. And what does she get in return, abusive words, but she still hangs on, she doesn't get even a simple phone call on her birthday but still she still smiles as if she never has a birthday and life moves on.




The Guy claims to love the lady.. is that real love?. what does real love feel like? what is it exactly?it's not all about the presents and the treats,(which are never even there) its also not just about the words, yes for a minute they do make someone smile and feel good. but its about the actions. the caring actions we do to make our friends or our partners smile. its all about the little sacrifices we make to see the other person smile.




Someone said: to women "Love is curse" maybe he/she was right simply because we are treated like crap most of the time,some walk away but most are usually to scared to walk away..but its time to stand and say what we really want, Note:we don't wanna be the one wearing pants in a relationship but we wanna feel respected and our efforts being appreciated!! simple.